Did anyone not meet their significant other until they were older like 26, or older?? How did you meet them?

I'm asking because at 20 I have never had a boyfriend... and its starting to hit me really hard, i have been out with guys and been on dates and stuff but I have never been a girlfriend, and if no one will make me their girlfriend... no one is going to make me a wife.. I want more than anything to be a wife and mother, and in all honesty I feel like if I don't meet someone soon I am not going to get married soon, I met a great guy online but he lives in Louisiana and I live in Ohio, and I haven't even met him in person yet, even though he's been great these last 8 months. I just NEED to find someone fast, I am so desperate, and I know I should "stop looking and it will find me" but I can't just not look... I need someone to be in a relationship and I feel like I am going to be alone forever.. BUT I have no way to meet anyone... I am in college but I am not willing to join a group alone.. I don't like being alone at all, like I can't sit alone in a public place (I feel like a loser) so idk what to do I just wish a decent guy would come up and hit on me but only crappy guys hit on me... I am so desperate I want to get married and have a baby in the next 2-3 years and idk what to do... I would rather not be 26.. still looking for a man but I feel like thats gonna be my life... and its depressing I want to die.