Please please please help mee?

you are leading another man on, and and leading your husband on..don't think you will get any help from me..your husband is your first priority..and if you can't handle that, then leave him first, and if you end up with this other guy, don't think he won't know why..and he is leading you on, by doing what you ask..and a player he is..for not respecting his self enough to know he wouldn't want to be in you husbands shoes right now, and he won't be ever, because you just showed him your colors of being true, and that color is an ugly color, and what your doing is ugly right along with it..so stop, and think what your doing here, and do the right thing, because your husband is the one you should be dressing up and talking personal issues with, and not some other man..k? btw, this man only cares about his self, and he told you that, so what does that make him now to u?